Dan Martin

No. 01 · The premise

Stop working on the wrong problem.

Cognitive hypnotherapist and mental performance coach for business owners whose business is built around them. Manchester and online across the UK.

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Dan Martin sitting on a bench against a stone wall in Castlefield Dan Martin sitting on a bench against a stone wall in Castlefield

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    Fig. 1 · Dan Martin, Castlefield, Manchester

    No. 02 · The mechanism

    Your belief system decides whether you get the life you actually want.

    The belief a client came in with

    what's wrong with me

    What she said after we traced it back

    "There is nothing wrong with me."

    Stacey Stockton

    How it runs

    Every belief like this was written somewhere specific, and it has been quietly running the same loop ever since:

    The belief Thoughts Feelings Actions Results …and back to the belief.

    The results that come back

    You get close again and fall short again, and the belief takes every near miss as proof it was right about you.

    Change has to happen at the centre.

    The Belief Loop

    Your life, as four rings around one belief.

    RESULTS ACTIONS FEELINGS THOUGHTS THE BELIEF
    Fig. 2 · Effort on the outer rings never holds

    The method

    01

    Find the belief

    The pattern points straight to it. Usually a short sentence that starts with "I am", and more often than anything else, some version of not good enough.

    02

    Trace it to source

    Back to the moment it was installed, usually early, when it was the best sense a younger you could make of something.

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    Change it there

    With cognitive hypnotherapy and NLP, at the root. When the centre changes, the loop starts running in your favour: the same goal, wanted instead of needed, without the forcing.

    No. 03 · Why nothing’s worked

    You’ve been blaming the wrong thing.

    You’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You might even have spent years in therapy, and you can probably explain why you keep getting in your own way better than most professionals could.

    So why hasn't anything changed?

    Because a belief was never information in the first place. It was a decision a much younger you made about yourself, as a result of something significant that happened in your life. It lives in the 95% of the mind that runs without you, which is why you can understand why you behave the way you do at a surface level, but it keeps running on its own, completely outside your control. Until now.

    And what was once decided can be re-decided, at the same depth it was made. That’s where change happens. Leave the old decision in place and the loop runs for another year, and every near miss adds to the proof.

    The 5% and the 95%

    Where effort goes, and where the belief lives.

    THE 5% insight, plans, effort THE 95% where the belief lives
    Fig. 3 · Understanding stops here

    The Belief Audit

    Find the beliefs holding you back.

    A short, honest audit. Tick the ones that feel true, and at the end I'll show you the one sitting underneath and what to do about it.

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    Free. Takes about three minutes.

    No. 04 · Why me

    I spent thirty years asking if I was the problem.

    Eleven weeks old

    Adopted. A belief written before I could talk: something is wrong with me.

    My twenties

    Drugs, steroids, sabotaged relationships. When you believe something's wrong with you, the loop makes sure you keep proving it.

    The climb

    Developed an insane work ethic. Climbed the corporate ladder. Then the depression and identity crisis caught up with me.

    Tracing it back

    Eventually I found the belief under all of it and traced it back to being given up as a baby. Never my fault, but I carried it like it was. I changed what it meant at the root and the lens cleared.

    Now

    Life came back: energy, a clear sense of who I am, backing myself. Every shift came from someone seeing me clearly before I could see myself. 

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    Black and white portrait of Dan Martin

    Fig. 4 · The therapist who needed therapy

    Quest-trained Cognitive Hypnotherapist

    Change at the level of the unconscious, where the belief actually lives.

    Partner at Total Mental Performance

    A seven-figure mental performance coaching company.

    Hundreds of clients coached

    More than five years of 1:1 work, from addiction recovery to mental performance.

    No. 05 · Afterwards

    What people say once it shifts

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    James Ellis

    "After working with Dan I feel constantly grounded and secure in myself. Something I've never felt before."

    "I'm calmer, more present and much happier. I've let go of behaviours that caused problems, pain and disconnection."

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    Stacey Stockton

    "It's hard, ugly, raw and extremely uncomfortable at times. But you will never regret it."

    "It opened my eyes to where so much of my self-doubt, shame and fear came from."

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    Fran Callado

    "He'll help you find pieces of yourself you didn't even know existed."

    "In one session alone, Dan made me see the origin of roadblocks I'd been looking for for years and helped me overcome them."

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    Nathan O'Neill

    "The biggest shift was learning to accept my sphere of control."

    "I'm not responsible for every curveball life throws at me and the people I love. That realisation changed everything."

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    Dana Daskalova

    "I'm finally able to rest and just do nothing without feeling guilty or thinking about all the stuff I've got to do."

    "This has led to having very focused and mindful time with my daughter especially, just playing and talking."

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    Grant Andrews

    "It's the first person I've worked with where I don't feel it's just a business transaction to them."

    "I have used Dan for around 2 years now, what I love about working with Dan is his understanding, his listening skills and his ability to map out your wants and needs."

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    Jack Forth

    "Dan had a superb ability to get to the root cause of what was holding me back from reaching my full potential."

    "His unique methods & coaching, helped me to unlock the tools within me, elevate my self-awareness, and realign my goals and vision of my future self."

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    Cecilia Magill

    "If you're looking for someone who brings rigour without ego, clarity without pressure, and a genuine desire to see you succeed, Dan is someone I would wholeheartedly recommend."

    "He didn't just skim the surface; he took the time to understand where I am in my business, what I'm building, and what matters to me."

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    Felicity Abbott

    "One session with him gave me so much clarity and helped shift my mindset immeasurably."

    "Dan is an amazing coach and all round a great person."

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    Alex Mead

    "Working with Dan has been a profound experience, one that I thought I was never capable of."

    "I developed a sense of self, to put myself first. I found worth for myself, and career prospects I never thought I would be embarking on."

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    Jack Beetham

    "Something is definitely different this time."

    "I'm feeling more positive, less anxious, more social and more energetic, and more clear on what I want out of the future. It's been a gamechanger for my motivation and productivity as a business owner."

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    Laura Styles

    "I realised I was being held back by my own conditioning, and my own beliefs from childhood."

    "He looked at it through a lens I hadn't looked through myself, and I had a real aha moment."

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    Who this is for

    Everyone who comes to me has a Big Goal...

    Taking the business past the point it keeps stalling.

    Finally paying themselves properly.

    Stepping back from delivery.

    Launching the second business they've sat on for years.

    Meeting the partner of their dreams.

    Finally making the move abroad.

    Writing the book they keep putting off.

    Building a team they actually trust.

    Underneath every one of them

    Their belief system and associated identity is the thing that's preventing them from being able to achieve it.

    No. 06 · Start

    Let's find out what's actually running things.

    01

    You apply through the form.

    02

    If it's a fit, I'll email you to book a call.

    03

    After the call, I'll build you a bespoke proposal based on what we find.

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