No. 04 · Why me
I spent thirty years asking if I was the problem.
Eleven weeks old
Adopted. A belief written before I could talk: something is wrong with me.
My twenties
Drugs, steroids, sabotaged relationships. When you believe something's wrong with you, the loop makes sure you keep proving it.
The climb
Developed an insane work ethic. Climbed the corporate ladder. Then the depression and identity crisis caught up with me.
Tracing it back
Eventually I found the belief under all of it and traced it back to being given up as a baby. Never my fault, but I carried it like it was. I changed what it meant at the root and the lens cleared.
Now
Life came back: energy, a clear sense of who I am, backing myself. Every shift came from someone seeing me clearly before I could see myself.
Fig. 4 · The therapist who needed therapy
Quest-trained Cognitive Hypnotherapist
Change at the level of the unconscious, where the belief actually lives.
Partner at Total Mental Performance
A seven-figure mental performance coaching company.
Hundreds of clients coached
More than five years of 1:1 work, from addiction recovery to mental performance.